Would you use artificial intelligence to find true love?
Feeling burned out by dating apps, lovelorn singles are getting more creative in their search for romance, with one woman turning to an AI chatbot to help meet the man of her dreams.
In a viral TikTok video, singleton Erin Spencer announced that she was using ChatGPTto help her find a husband in 2025.
“Basically for years, I’ve had a list of all the things, all of their traits, characteristics, everything that I want in my ideal man,” Spencer explained in her TikTok, without revealing what they were.
“I took my list and I said to ChatGPT ‘If I want a man that has all of the qualities below, what kind of woman do you think he would want?’”
After looking at the list that ChatGPT generated, she noted some of the qualities she already had and others she needed to work on.
She then asked ChatGPT to generate a daily schedule for this woman, covering everything from her wake-up routine to workouts and meals.
Spencer said she plans to follow this schedule as part of her self-improvement journey until she finds her future husband,
“Meet you soon bae,” she captioned the video.
Although it’s too soon to tell if AI will provide her with the man of her dreams, viewers were impressed by her creative method.
“For me, it’s really less about changing who I am as a person because I do think I’m a good person…and more about the spiritual side of things… becoming the best version of myself so I can attract the best version of a man for me,” Erin said in a follow-up video.
“Me wanting to be a better person. Me wanting to do better so I can attract better. I don’t think is a bad thing.”
Along with turning to artificial intelligence, lonely singles are also turning back the clock, looking to a centuries-old tradition to attract new love in the new year.
People on TikTok are claiming to have found love after eating 12 grapes in the first minute of the New Year.
But the grape theory is more than just a TikTok trend, it’s actually a centuries-old Spanish tradition called “uvas de la suerte,” which translates to “grapes of luck.”
The custom consists of eating a grape coinciding with each chime of the clock at midnight on Dec. 31 to welcome the new year. Each grape represents a month in the coming year.
Izzy Dwyer posted a TikTok video of herself quickly devouring 12 grapes at the strike of midnight last New Year, followed by a cute montage of her and her boyfriend.
“Who would have thought,” she captioned the video.
